So, you just have a breakup and basically go through all the types of conflicting advice such as having a rebound fling, rest for a week, eat plenty of food, go shopping and have a spending spress. You may even start dating other guys and have been going town on a dating spree. But at the end of all these where you enjoyed the new found freedomg, you feel something is bothering you ie, he/she still lingers in you thoughts. So how do you really know if it it all over.
Here are 5 signs that you’re not over him:
1. Everything reminds you of him.
“Your song”will break your heart everytime it is aired in that favorite radio station of yours. You have so many things that you wanted to tell him and see his expressions. Afterall, you have been doing that for the last few years right.
Recomendation : Forget the list and stop putting energy in the past. Start bonding with the people now in your life like your close friends. You will get used to it eventually.
2. You’re lashing out in public forums.
We know twitter and facebook is a way of life now and is a place where you air your opinion. Yet, it is not a good idea to be talking about him openly and with a false hope that he will come back.
Recommendation : Get your inspiration for public opinon else where. Look towards friends, music etc. Maybe even that new date yesterday.
3. You’re overcompensating.
You doll yourself up or get into the best suit in the hope that you will run into him. You wanna make him regret in losing you by seeing how gorgeous you are.
Recommendation : Forget about dressing for him. It is you that matters. Do not imagine about him’s expression when you look at your best.
4. You have no interest in that dude giving you the eye.
You have men throwing themselves at you left and right, eager to love the pain away. But all those guys seem pretty repulsive right now. When your ex calls, however, you pick up right away. (What? It could be important!)
Recommendation : Try chatting up a new guy. You never know what could happen…
5. You compare everyone to him.
And come on. Stop comparing that new hot dude to your ex and make dude looks like a pig.
Recommendation : Start dating someone and recognize that date as just himself. Measure him on his merits.
Via Yahoo Dating



