How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don’t Know, And Get Them To Think You’re Great!
By Tiffany Taylor

For this example I am going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.

Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive – for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side…

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GuyGetGirls : Making A Great First Impression On Women

Another top article from Tiffany Taylor.  In short, the author of guygetgirl ebook tells u that u should be looking at your best any time any day where this will mark a close to 70% differences of sucess. And she goes on to explain her secret 5S of how to look your best. Hmm. No wonder I am attracting ladies at over the table now. Cheers.

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it is become a bit of a cliche because it is true — first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point that she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It is the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you are on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success where no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best.

Tiffany 5 S of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women feel too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You don’t want to smell too overpowering.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don not sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact By Tiffany Taylor

Another article from the guygetgirl series. Basically, Tiffany teaches about the way to handle physical contacts from the start in such a way that you will get the dream girl in your hand. Cool reading.

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can not successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility  I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl is not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they do not want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact and doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he is simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you are a confident guy who is not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let us take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that is simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman is arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it is a clear-cut sign that you are a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Do not be afraid to give it a try,  you will notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you have started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it is important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you have already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ” Stealth Tactility” ™ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but does not know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ” contact close ” ™ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work have been done once something has been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Another article by Tiffany Taylor, author of Guy Gets Girl which is a dating and seduction ebook. In summary Tiffany teaches about the way to get the way that you like by focusing attention on her gal friends!! Thats actually works for me. And there is more … Read the full article here.

[tag-tec]Tiffany Taylor[/tag-tec]:

There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘[tag-tec]seduction game[/tag-tec]’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.

However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.

1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.

Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

Check out my post : Guygetgirl ebook review for more information.

GuyGetsGirl Review – Pickup, dating And Seduction Guide

This book is written by Tiffany Taylor, renowned and beautiful dating expert from a woman’s perspective who claims that is a guide to approaching any woman, anywhere, and knowing exact what to say to get her to give you her number and go on a date with you.

But does GuyGetsGirl really deliver? That is what I’vve set out to find, and what I’m going to share with you right here on this blog.

Guygetsgirl is a 3 volumes ebook from beginners, to intermediate to advanced. For most of us, beginner will give us a wonderful kick-start. The first thing to notice about Guy Gets Girl, is the fact that it is written by a woman and thus, it offers a very different and valuable perspective, especially in revealing all of the dirty tricks women play on men and describes exactly how any guy can use special techniques to attract and seduce the woman or women of his choice.

This is where the dating signs and tips will start.

Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered by Tiffany, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most are not good looks or fast cars.

Now before you visit the site, I beg that you do not visit it if you do not intend to read and follow the guide. There is no such things like quick success. It comes with determination, like all other things in the world. If this suits you, read on.

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Now, just ask yourself. Are you
- Tired of women passing you by without a second glance?
- Fed up with being alone or having to settle for ugly or average looking women?
- Annoyed how the same few guys seem to get all the great girls when you don’t get any?
- Scared of the dating scene and unsure how to approach and talk to women?

I am one of the above too. That is before I read the [tag-tec]GuyGetsGirl guide[/tag-tec]. :>

Well, Tiffany stated in her site that her dating and seduction guide which is a Tested Psychological Secrets Of The Female Mind will allow you to get any woman that you desire. Great Dating Tips !

Of course, you must follow Tiffany Taylor’s guide and be transformed first!

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In fact, she offers ton of things to learn like
1. How to get into one-night stands with ease, and get out of them even easier, should you need to – without anyone getting hurt.
2. Read her body language and have ultimate power by picking up on what she is thinking but not saying.
3. The Mental Spotlight Positioning technique will enable you to overcome any shyness or reservedness so that you will be able storm into the lives of beautiful women with ease and regularity!
4. Read her body language and have ultimate power by picking up on what she is thinking but not saying.
5. Learn the 4 best places to take a girl on a date, to guarantee you will see her again. They don not even cost as much as a meal at a cheap restaurant, but they are infinitely more enjoyable for her!
And more! Do check out the terms FFIMD. I think that this is awefully cute.

The GuyGetsGirl ebook comes at $49.95 (Forty -nine dollars and ninety-five cents Only) with Lifetime membership and immediate access.
If bonus serves as an incentive to check out the ebook, Tiffany Taylor give away 4 High Quality ebook worth of $97.
Best of all, it comes with 8 week 100% warranty where you can request refund if you consider that the GuyGetsGirl ebook is nothing close to being quality stuff. (I will actually beg to differ).

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